As I moved round with nature, I observed different
kind of romance, it was indeed surprising:
First, I observed lovers with so much passion and
affection for each other, it was indeed romantic, and I felt like wow! This is
a match made in Heaven....not too long, to some before marriage and to some,
after marriage they became worst enemies...then I asked NATURE, what happened?
He smiled and said "That wasn't LOVE"
We moved further and behold another Kind; this was
quite a funny observation. I saw a fellow struggling and desiring another
fellow whereas the desired fellow was desiring another who was also desiring
another. I named it a chain-reaction love. It was baffling and then i asked
NATURE...What is the cause? He smiled and said "Error".
Another observation I hated most,
a fellow who did everything and was even willing to give his life just to win
love, with much effort succeeded in winning the heart of the desired fellow,
just soon after getting the affection he wanted became eager to experience
another relationship and affection.
I said to nature..."What is this?" He said "Error"
I said to nature..."What is this?" He said "Error"
I got frustrated, wanting to know
the cause of all these...I said to Him, then what is LOVE?
He drove me down to the mountain
and said:
Nature: Look over there, what did you see?
Me: A tree
Nature: Look again...
Me: A huge tree with green leaves
Nature: Good! I wanted you to notice the
green leaves. You asked me a question, you said; what is love?
Love is living, anything living
has life and anything with life grows. Then I recalled my secondary school
biology (WHAT IS A LIVING THING?).
He went further....Love as a
living being feeds and reproduce. Just as the tree depends on it roots for
survival, love depends on its root/sources( THE LORD OF NATURE). You patiently
nurture/water it and watch it grow, to some, it grows faster (2-6months) to
some it takes time (7months above), and all depends on the nutrient (Virtues)
you give to it. There is nothing as love-at-first-sight.
The problem with the first observation is that most
fellow are inpatient to the process of LOVE, people want what they can’t give.
You can’t get what you are ignorant of. There are various misinterpretations of
love but the best way to describe its feature is PASSION + FRIENDSHIP +
COMMITMENT + INTIMACY. When one of this is subtracted from the original it
becomes either LUST or INFATUATION.
Though in rare occasions we find
LUST or INFATUATION developing into LOVE, and that’s when the
right thing is done, that is feeding it with the right minerals; just the same
way a dying tree can be nurtured into a healthy tree. Today most lovers
ignorantly allow their love life to become deficient of these valuable love
minerals.
Back to your observation (you referred to as chained reaction love). It takes maturity to understand what love is and to breed love. Loving the wrong person is like planting a tree on an infertile soil. Yes, you create love by giving love, but in the process of creating love, you must be sensitive to poisonous substances that could hinder the growth.
Most people believe, love cannot die, and out of
ignorant had suffered huge defeat. If love is living, then it is subjected to
death. The only one who cannot die is the LORD OF NATURE Himself, therefore as
long as your love is connected to the source it keeps living on.
Another thing one must take into
consideration is to ensure your love life doesn’t go ill, subjecting your love
life to illness without proper care and attention could also destroy love. It
is therefore your primary responsibility to constantly check if your love
affair is sick or healthy by observing the four nutrient/features earlier
mentioned. Don’t allow things to get worst before making amend otherwise you
might end losing it all.
For more insight, you can send
comment which will be treated.
Always there for you,
By:- Peace Eze
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